The Lilac Flower: Its Meanings and Symbolism
What Does the Lilac Flower Mean?
The lilac flower has many meanings, but most are related to expressing love or affection:
- In Victorian times, giving a lilac meant that that the giver is trying to remind the receiver of a first love.
- Lilacs can also express confidence that the giver has for the receiver. This makes lilacs a good gift for graduates.
- A sprig of lilacs, especially white lilacs, symbolizes innocence.
Etymological Meaning of the Lilac Flower
In taxonomy, lilacs have their own genera called Syringa. So, for example, the common lilac is known as Syringa vulgaris. The English word lilac is stolen from the French and Spanish word lilac. Arab and Persian also has a remarkably similar word – lilak. The granddaddy of most European and Asian languages, Sanskrit, had a similar word nilah which means “dark blue” as a color and not necessarily as a flower. All of the other words for lilac are thought to have derived from nilah.
Symbolism of the Lilac Flower
Since lilacs are such versatile and ever-present flowers, it’s no surprise that they are a symbol many things such as:
- Reminders of an old flame. In Victorian times, widows often wore lilacs.
- Lilacs are often the first flowers to bloom when temperatures rise and only last a couple of weeks, so lilacs often symbolize spring.
- In New Hampshire, lilacs are said to represent the “hearty character” of New Hampshire residents.
Lilac Flower Facts
Lilacs are so beloved that some towns compete over who loves lilacs best.
- The Lilac capital of the world is Rochester, New York, home of the annual Lilac Festival.
- Cornwall in the Canadian providence of Ontario also claims to be a major center for lilac lovers, with a lilac collection about as massive as the one in Rochester’s Highland Park.
- Lilacs are the official state flower of New Hampshire.
Lilac Flower Color Meanings
Although lilacs get their name from their most popular color, lilacs can come in other colors. Some species and hybrids come in two colors. Common color sybolism spans many European, Asian and North American cultures. These are the colors of lilacs as recognized by the International Lilac Society:
- White: That purity and innocence thought to be part of childhood.
- Violet: All shades of purple tend to reflect spirituality, but darker purple reflects that the wearer is concerned or knows about spiritual mysteries.
- Blue: Pastel shades symbolize a baby boy, but soft blue can also mean happiness and tranquility. Many hospital or therapist rooms are a soft shade of blue.
- Lilac: This lighter shade of purple is associated with one’s first love or the first time one feels love for someone.
- Pink: Not just for little girls, pink is also associated with love and strong friendships.
- Magenta: This shade of dark red is associated with passion, love and the sheer thrill of being alive, especially after surviving a harrowing experience.
- Purple: Because lighter shades of purple are associated with first loves, purple is often an alternative to black for mourning or for remembering somber anniversaries.
Meaningful Botanical Characteristics of the Lilac Flower
Lilacs are not only pretty, but useful in many ways.
- Many species of butterflies and moths rely on lilac plants in order for their caterpillars to survive.
- The common lilac produces nectar favored by bees and butterflies.
- Lilac flowers are a common ingredient in fine cosmetics and perfumes.
- Aromatherapy oil made with lilac flowers is supposed to be good for relaxation and to sweeten up smelly rooms.
The Lilac Flower’s Message…
Lilacs bloom for only a short while, but they are vibrant in their short lives. Love affairs or relationships can last even shorter. Enjoy love while it lasts and do not regret past loves.